How does one succeed in life?
Last Updated: 16.06.2025 12:30
Attending 1 specific event every week is a system. Friends will naturally come to you.
Cutting off WiFi at home for a month or giving your phone to a distant friend for a month (in exchange for a Nokia or simply nothing) is a system.
Porn blockers might help, but they won’t be as effective. And you know nudity isn’t just on Pornhub—it’s everywhere. Don’t joke with fire.
Which feels physically better for guys: vaginal sex or anal sex?
Keep in mind that, there is always a system for any problem. You just need to be willing to think hard enough and BE WILLING TO MAKE SACRIFICES.
Losers and winners have the same goals. The difference is their systems.
However, he firmly believes that one day, he will (like by a miracle) be that new, dope version of himself, Sam’i 2.0:
Can you name a female actress who has had bad timing or luck in her film career?
Living to your full potential is a goal.
Opens a business and makes WiFi money.
Example 1: Let’s say you make a monthly income, and you want to save $10,000.
If you were president, how would you make America "great again?"
Buying, a book like Live Intentionally or any other practical self-improvement guide is a system.
How can I make the good habit (you want to start) inevitable?
Example 4: Maybe you want to quit porn for 30 days.
Which is the most liked web series in India?
Scrolls too much TikTok/YouTube Shorts.
What I need from you?
Example 3: Maybe you want to make more friends.
What is the one thing you don't understand that others do?
Similarly, "YOU 2.0" trusts you to make decisions for him.
Losing 20kg is a goal.
Ask yourself:
Hates going to the gym, eating healthy, or even doing laundry.
If you don’t change now, expect tomorrow to be almost exactly the same—or worse.
Does not procrastinate.
Why are black people harassed more by police officers?
Do not set goals—set systems.
Quitting porn for 30 days is a goal.
Paying a coach with a detailed plan is a system.
What should I do to stop being angered easily?
An average man, let's call him Sam’i (that’s my name):
Like Sam’i, 99% of men treat their future selves like strangers—completely different from who they are right now.
I never raise problems without solutions. So, what to do?
How can I be okay with being ugly? What is the bright side?
Most people think their 2.0 version will magically manifest and find it easier to do hard things.
Big dreamer but only in his mind.
How can I make it impossible to fall into a specific bad habit (you want to quit)?
What baseball stories from the early days of the sport seem too bizarre to be true?
Can’t control his impulses (women, porn, masturbation, smoking, Netflix, anger, etc.).
Hangs out with loser friends.
Final example: Maybe you want to be a better version of yourself in 2025.
Why do people love to live alone in a house?
PICK 1 important thing you want to quit or bring into your life in 2025. Think hard about a system that will make it impossible or inevitable.
In 5 years, YOU will still be the one making decisions. And if you keep your current habits, "YOU 2.0" will have big problems.
First, understand that, effective "change" should be 80% systems and only 20% willpower—not the other way around. Do not joke with that.
What sexual experience did you have at a highway rest area?
Procrastinates a lot.
Self-disciplined (controls his d*ck, no Netflix, no smoking, etc.).
Has a beautiful wife, cars, etc.
Having a process that automatically transfers money to your savings account each month is a system.
The money you’ve invested, the tailored plan, and the accountability of the coach make it almost impossible not to succeed.
Avoids sugar and is very fit.
Example 2: Maybe you want to lose weight.
“YOU 2.0” is like your future kid. It’s your duty to make decisions for him. It is wiser to marry a nice mom for your kid, not just a beautiful wife for yourself.
Making more friends is a goal.
The truth is: Future YOU is simply YOU, but older and more tired.
That's it for today.
Saving $10,000 is a goal.